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Orlando GFE Escort BrendaBoobies FAQ! Here are the most popular questions and answers below. Questions regarding donations, please refer to my Donations page.  Anything not covered here, please use my contact page. As long as the question is not sexual in nature, answered below, or offensive I try to answer questions in less than three days. 

 

About me...

I am American born of Italian and Slavic descent,  5.7 inches tall and apx 130 pounds and born in 1971.

I have size 8 sexy feet, size 4 for dresses, 34DDD EXTRA SOFT BREASTS that enjoy titty fucking!, size small panty, tight body, pretty white straight teeth, nonsmoker, with a great attitude.

I have long black hair (naturally a blonde!!), hazels eyes, my nails and grooming are impeccable. 

I drink socially, do not do drugs, or smoke- anything. 

I carry myself with a down to Earth vibe, perfectly mixed with sensual sweetheart, sophisticated slut, meets no drama, and determined to enjoy life type of lady!

I am a very happy lady with a diverse base of interests that keep me busy and grounded.

I love the simple things in life such as my family that also includes my two dogs and many fish.

I love to bike ride, watch MMA & hockey, garden, cook, collect seashells, watch sunsets, lay by my pool reading but definitely appreciate romatic dinners out and going wonderful places.

I am a low volume upscale, mature, GFE Escort provider. 

I enjoy time with only the most respectful people so if you want to see me, you will have to follow my screening format to the letter...

The hours I usually am available to play are 1PM until 10PM any day of the week except when I am on vacation which will be noted on my schedule page.

My sexy incall is in South Orlando, just waiting for you to visit!

 

 

Not hearing back from me?

I literally block on the first contact with me some basic idiotic messages like Lets hookup etc.. 

If you have NO social skills, no sense of how to come at a lady properly, I am simply not going to waste my time.

Sometimes in this busy world people do not think they are being rude but sending something like "outcall to (enter location)"

LOL, ummmmm no... I am never personally answering something like that.

It is indeed rude... if you are that abrupt before I get there- chances are you will be worse in private- thanks- but NO thanks...

A GFE session is to mimic a GIRLFRIEND, so always keep it sweet, respectful, classy, but interesting, the exact way I speak to my "BOYFRIENDS" is the only way I will be spoken to.

Other times I may block if I have already sent out a one time reminder to you not to call my phone or to not leave a message-

because I do understand when the nerves are running high, you can easily miss things, BUT once I have reminded you,

and you still do not respect my wishes, you are then blocked.

Asking anything I have already answered in a text/email that is covered on my website will not receive a personal response.

Asking inappropriate questions like asking for services clearly stated as NO with me, asking for extra pictures,

sending graphic pictures - trust me I'm never going to ask for a picture of your dick

or once I have said no thanks, there is no reason to contact me again.

I am not for everybody, and everybody is not for me.

Regardless if contacting me or another lady, the way to get our attention is to give us all the basics upfront,

Who, What, Where, When, & How format is ALWAYS great.

Saying "Hey sexy are you available this Sunday" sounds "ok" right -but no, it really is not good enough, WHY????

Because available this Sunday WHERE? In Orlando or New York? see the difference?

WHEN at 8am or 8PM see the difference!?

how to improve your chances of getting a response from a high end Orlando Escort Dominatrix?

Really put some thought into what you send, a first impression only happens once- make it a good one!

WHO-calling us sexy is great... but later on ---- to start use our name so we know the message is directed at us,

WHAT- what type of session if she offers more than one option, dinner date etc

WHEN-tell us the time frame you are looking for because any day has lots of options- lol, 

and for how long you would like to spend together 

WHERE? Sunday in Orlando or Guam- wouldn't know from that message! and don't forget Incall or Outcall?

AND HOW!!!! this can be for many things- like basic screening or whatever- keep it brief, polite, and sweet. 

xoxoxooxoxo

 

What is GFE and PSE

GFE stands for Girlfriend Expierence.

GFE for ME means French Kissing, Bare Oral sex on either of us- or just one, and covered regular sex.

Uncovered sex or anal sex is not an option with me-ever - do not even ask. 

I always use a Female Condom for regular sex.

If you prefer I use a condom for oral sex on you, just let me know. 

If you want to use a dental dam on me, I always have them on me and will not be offended!

Each lady has her own definition of GFE so do not assume my GFE is another ladies GFE!

I love a man to treat my body like his temple and to worship me literaly head to toe or just lay back and let me do all the pampering!!!

GFE can include anything you think is standard in the bedroom like strap on pegging play, roleplay, basic GFE, Fetish, it is all good to me!!

I do NOT OFFER PSE sessions at all. I am a GFE Escort Fetish Dominatrix only!!

 

Screening Deposits

I spend about 20 minutes researching each person I am potentially going to be alone with so ALL new requests will either respect my new format, or they should just move along.

There are plenty of ladies that do not require a fee to be screened, but only one of me...

So when you play my game, 99% sure bet to win the game!

I can afford to be very picky and strict with this policy.

Try to find another VIP Orlando GFE Escort with my looks & body, my knowledge of BDSM, my love for passion, etc lol I'm not being stuck up, I just know my value I bring to a man, and only the most generous and respectful men who appreciate this -will enjoy time with me.

 

 

Other Acroynms

Reviews are usually written with acroynms that in the beginning most people have no clue what the mean.

Here are the most basics

CFS- covered full service- vaginal sex with a condom - please do not engage in unprotected sex unless you are in a commited relationship. Just doing so once endanges everybody you come in contact with after that. No vagina is worth dying for!!!

BBBJ- bare back blow job, blowjob without a condom Guys do NOT try to ram your dick in a ladies mouth, pull hair without her consent, cum in mouth without warning unless you are sure the lady is cool with it, and be CLEAN OMG BE CLEAN - you can never ever be too clean EVER!!! wash EVERYTHING lol nothing ruins intimacy like odor

DATY- licking pussy GO EASY if a lady wants more pressure you will know... if you want to be sure let her know you really want to please and I'm sure a lady will guide you to a better path if needed!!

DFK, LFK deep or light French Kissing Guys a lady might enjoy kissing- I certainly do but good grief, do NOT try to kiss a woman like you are in porno. NO LADY EVER enjoys a guys bad breath, dry mouth from ciggarettes etc, having a tongue jammed in her mouth trying to taste tonsils. Just start out easy and let it build up. If a lady is staying on your lips enjoy! if she is not maybe something is not working for her such as coarse facial hair etc

MSOG- can cum many times in your alloted time,  do not think you are squeezing 1 more in with 5 min left on the clock. The last 5 min of any session should be when you are getting up to gather your things and get dressed. Just like one hour massage at any salon is really only 50 minutes because that 5 min to start is getting undressed and the last 5 to get back to being dressed.

OTC- off the clock NEVER ever assume you can arrive early or stay past your time to chit chat or whatever unless the lady has made it 100% clear it is OK. Do not ask a lady to meet you before a session to have a drink without compensation. It would be the same premise as your boss asking you to come in before work or after work and not getting overtime. I have a donation to meet for drinks before but many ladies do not for many reasons - they cant or don't want to be in public etc. Even if it is not me you spend time with, sometimes just sending a $25 gift card to a lady you are meeting is a nice way for HER to possibly offer to meet for a drink. 

YMMV - your mileage may vary This happens because no two people are going to interact the same way. You are NEVER guaranteed anything other than the time you book. You are never entitled to do anything she is not ok with. Do not read a review and expect the same exact things to happen. Many guys inflate their performance in reviews. Sometimes it could just be a body issue and not a personality issue such as a man that is 280 with a beer gut from Hell is just not going to get the same positions as the guy with a normal sized tummy - its just life! Just be excited for your own intimacy and do not get wrapped up in trying to keep some score.

PSE - porn star expierence usually includes anal sex or unprotected sex, things the average lady will not engage in. Please search for a lady who is marketing herself as PSE friendly if that is what fits your fancy!!! It is not me!!!

Greek- anal sex NOPE, not my thing to be done to me either, that includes fingers and mouths - just not my thing. I do love playing with guys asses though!!!!!

FIV- finger in vagina- do not do this to me For ladies that like that - please have clean hands and go easy on her until she is clearly wanting deeper or more stimulation!!!

COF -cum on face, yup don't do this to me either! I cannot even imagine why anybody likes this but to each their own. 

CIM- cum in mouth, Make sure you give a warning that you are almost there so if the lady is not into that, she can be prepared to adjust as needed!

NQNS - no quit, no spit, sorry I spit lol I personally find this to be too high risk of an activity. 

 

Availabilty

Unless my home page or schedule page says I am off, you can assume I will try to make anything work on any day in the Central Florida area.

Other locations are available with advanced planning and travel fees will need to be prepaid.

I am available to those who willfully are forth coming with screening information, over thirty-five years old, US citizens, are not blacklisted, and anything else I need per request.

I do NOT publically tour anymore but still travel via private prepaid request.

I do not see new clients on the same day as screening.

  

Timing...

I get asked all the time, is it too early to book for...

No, it is never too early as currently I have regular appointments scheduled months in advance so BOOK NOW to make sure you get your requested date!

WHY book so early?

Conferences in Orlando and Tampa and many vacations are usually planned 6-9 months in advance.

Many snow birds book weekly visits with their favorites knowing months will go by without access to her.

I am a low volume GFE Escort provider so if you think you want to see me on a future date, let me know at least to pencil you in after screening.  

 

References

I do not have the time or desire to get involved with that process. 

I do not give them or accept them so do not be rude and ask for an exception.

I will however happily vouch for you on Preferred411 after we have a good session.

Too many issues have caused me be strict on this policy.

Every lady has the right to decide how she runs her business so anyone who feels they are entitled to a reference needs to rethink that, nobody is entitled to anything.

I have been disappointed after trying to help others and now besides vouching on P411, I mind my own business and expect others to do the same.

 

  

Pictures & Videos

I will happily take some on my phone and forwarded anything I feel is generic enough after we have met a few times, however I do not do explicit photos or videos.

Never ask for extra pictures before meeting me - it is rude and will probably get your possibilty of meeting knocked down to around zero! I do have an option for a flirt week donation which DOES get you one personal picture of a selfie sent to you only.

 

Gifts

Of course I love gifts but never will expect them.

Online Gift cards for Amazon are my favorite.

They can be sent to giftcardbb@gmail.com

Although I am an Elite GFE Escort Companion, I do not ask for crazy luxury gifts but of course will never turn them down!

Cash is always welcome!

   

Fetish Interests

I have a very active imagination. I am never the sub or a switch, only a Dominatrix.

Attempting to top from the bottom will immediately bring our session to a halt.

Some of my favorite Fetishes are Strap on play-Pegging, CBT, NT, Tease & Denial, Bondage, Sissy Training, Cross Dressing, Foot Fetish, Electro Stimulation, Hot Wax, Violet Wand...

I have a fully stocked dungeon with a St Andrews cross, puppy cage... lots of goodies in Orlando, Fl.

  

Age Requirements

Please be over 35. I am 47. It just feels weird to me when a guy is much younger than me for a GFE date.

I am lucky enough to be spolied with many regular clients so when I accept a new lover in my life I want to be sure the chances of us getting along are much greater. 

Although I do not like to lump people together, I know I am not sexually attracted to MOST guys younger than me so for both of our sakes,

I do not try to set up a date thinking I am not 100% looking forward to it.

 

 

P411, Preferred411

You do not need to have a p411 account to see me.

P411 members must still use my screening format which includes the $50 gift card.

I do not just see a guy has a bunch of vouches and end screening there- why? because certain guys do not always act like a gentleman,

so I spend about twenty minutes researching a guy to make sure he is not a sex offender, blacklisted, a serious felon, etc. 

My safety will always come first, if you do not understand or respect that, please see someody with lower standards!

If a provider does not care about her own safety, she will probably not care about yours... is that the person you want to spend time with?

 

TER, TheEroticReview

At the time of me updating this site, 4/8/18, theEroticReview is no longer visible unless you are using a browser to hide your USA IP Address due to Fosta.

Please do not write me a review without asking me.

There are things that need to be stated but also things I may not want included.

To read my sexy & steamy GFE Escort reviews click here

Sadly some ladies buy good reviews, so this is one reason a man should do his homework and really see what kind of web presence a lady has.

I am super active on my Twitter so you can get a TRUE sense of my personality.

 

What is Outcall vs Incall

Outcall means I come to you. Incall means you come to me.

My incall currently is in Orlando. I can - with prepayment get an incall for us anywhere. 

 

Overnights

I have vacationed with clients before however I do not sleep with anybody.

I require a start and end time. I do require ten hours of private time to myself between the night and the morning time.

This is not a money thing- this is a I do not like to be bothered at all when I am sleeping and I do not like waking up to anybodies bad breath besides my dogs!

No matter how well we get along, it is just not an option to sleep in the same room.

 

 

Twitter

I really like to interact with my Tweethearts! 

I usually only follow people I know or people who have captured my attention usually by sending me a gift!!!

Please follow me to get a true sense of my personality or check in often.

Do not assume I know any lady besides JennaLove that I interact with on Twitter.

 

Wardbobe

I have a beautiful selection of leather, lace, garterbelt outfits, and latex lingerie.

I have a beautiful collection of sexy but classy dresses should you wish for us to be in public.

I will always be slutty in the bedroom but a lady in public.

 

Other questions I have been asked from my contact form:

 

 

Are you married?

I am not sure why I am always asked this but in reality does it matter?!

You will see wedding rings in some pictures because I was married then divorced, then married then divorced and now??????

Well let's just say I am a hopeless romantic :)  

 

Are there things you do not like in the bedroom?

No biting, slapping, or general rough shit on me - if you want hardcore throwing the girl up on the wall kind of crazy sex- sorry I'm just not the one!

I'm lazy and easy lol, no-- really slow and sensual is what you will get with me unless YOU are the one bent over and you want me to pound the fucking hell out of you- then I am all in!!!!!!

No fingers in my pussy or ass, save my tender inside for your hard cock!!!

No cum on my face. 

No Degrading dirty talk- I'm not your dirty cunt etc - if you have to question if its degrading- probably best to not go there!

  

Do you squirt?

NO, nor do I have any desire to do so.

If you like that- great- just do not be offended that I do not do that. 

My big O is not messy like a squirter but I am surely just as happy lol

 

Do you care if I am married?

No, I do not and prefer you not take your ring off when you are with me.

Why risk loosing it!?

I do not care why you hobby so do not feel any need to make up "excuses" to justify seeing me!

I'm not the marriage police!

I believe more marriages have been saved with men seeing me then ever lost.

I do not want a relationship with you outside of our scheduled time- a "real" girlfriend will get jealous etc, not me!

Just let me know when you are horney and can afford to see me!

I worry if I guy takes it off and wants to leave it in his car, are you really going to have putting it back on the first thing on your mind?

It is your ring, your fantasy, and possibly YOUR ass if you misplace it.

 

A question from an angry wife...

I have been asked more than once why it does not bother me that I am possibly contributing to a man cheating. My answer is very simple. It is not my place to judge anyone. I am not the marriage police! I did not make any vow to her. A mans behavior is never anybody elses responsibitly other than his. An escort is not luring a man that was not already looking. If a man does not see me, he will just see another Escort. I personally do not condone lying to a spouse but I do understand how and why it happens. I cannot stress enough that a man seeing an Escort is less of an issue than him having an affair...

That vow or promise a man made to a woman has usually been broken by the woman first. 

That of course is outside of a true medical reason, like the wife is deathly ill, etc. I do not believe going through the change of life is a good reason to stop being intimate it is just an excuse from where I stand.

I see what so many women do to their husbands, they put work or kids before their husbands, stop having sex, stop getting sexy for them, gain weight - stop wearing makeup, stop appreciating them and so MOST men that I speak to have given up on hoping their wives will all of a sudden want to have sex. MOST men just use Escorts to stay sane. It is not normal for married couples to not be having intimacy of some sort anymore. I have NEVER ever heard any woman say their man stopped trying to be intimate with them. I personally do not understand it but I hear the same story over and over again so in my view wives... if they are not fucking their husbands, they better believe at some point their husband WILL BE FUCKING somebody... an affair with a civvie woman will almost always ruin familys because feelings get involved.

An Escort just wants to enjoy the time and go on with her life. 

So to answer simply, I only worry about my own behavior, anybody else is responsible for their choices. I just do not care if a man is cheating or not. 

  

What is your real name?

What makes you think Brenda Boobies is not my real name?

A hobbyist should never ask a provider her real name. It is just rude...

If the provider wants you to know it, she will tell you.  

Everybodies name is OH GOD at the right moment!!

  

Can you help me with your gift its a little high some providers negotiate do you?

FUCK NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

If you cannot afford my gift, you should either save up or move on.

I can't imagine any lady with a drop of class agreeing to see somebody so disrespectful as to haggle for pussy?

Absolutely rude and if a lady agrees to see you for less than her amount you might want to ask yourself why she is so hardup!!!!!!

I am an elite companion that caters to men who understands you get what you pay for!

Nobody walks in to buy a new Benz if all you can afford is a used beater...

 

 

Do you have a cancellation policy?

Yes, if you cancel within 24 hours of our date, I expect 50% of the gift within 24 hours.

At midnight on the day of our date it jumps to 75%

I have a regular life business that does not allow me much time to screen people for a last second appointment so chances are if you cancel within a day,

I will most likely not be able to reschedule and receive that gift elsewhere.

As well, to book another date you will need to prepay.

If you chose not to complete the fee, I will have no choice but to blacklist you so other ladies do not risk their time being wasted.

You should send the giftcard for Amazon egiftcard to BBGiftcard@gmail.com

Do not write anything to do with a fee etc

  

Do you smoke or do drugs?

No, I do not smoke anything.

I really prefer you do not while on our date.

If you must, I will happily wait away from you.

I do drink once in a while but not if I have to drive anywhere.

I am high on life so no I do not do drugs.

Smoking anything changes your mouth,,,, I love wet mouths- not dry...

PLEASE DO NOT ENGAGE IN DRUG ACTIVITIES IN FRONT OF ME,

IT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF AND WILL ABRUPTLY END OUR TIME TOGETHER.

  

Do you mind if I enjoy poppers on our date?

YES, actually I do.

I am not interested in being with anybody that needs their mind altered regardless if it is considered a "drug" or not.

If you use them to relax, just let me know your nerves are getting the best of you and we can slow down a moment but please book the correct amount of time. 

  

Your reviews seem to have gone up since you started, why is that? 

The first year I was providing, I did not provide GFE so my scores were lower.

I am NOW completely a GFE Escort in Orlando. 

Also some lower scores might have been when I only saw the man for a Fetish session which would not allow any score over a 7. 

Scores for looks - well beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

I do take better care of myself now then when I first start providing so the scores are reflective.

PLEASE DO NOT REVIEW ME without speaking to me first.

I do not wish to have certain things like my location included etc so please respect my request and talk to me first.

 

I see there was no reviews for a few years, what happened?

I took time off to build my "regular" business.

 

Am I supposed to tip you?

No, I will always appreciate it but it is NOT in any way expected.

If you do decide to do it, do not say anything about money.

You can say something like - oh I think you dropped this, I forgot this etc, just do not try and hand it to me - maybe just put it with my things.

Sometimes a sweetie will send a gift card or something after our date - no matter what it is, I always appreciate the thought.

The best tip is always to just book another date with me!!!

 

What is a whitelist exactly and how do I get it?

A whitelist is a form of approval by a provider for others to see on TheEroticReview.com.

Please NEVER ask me for a whitelist.

That is for me to decide however please do make sure I know you have an account.

You do not have to review me to get a whitelist.

I will remove my whitelist from your profile if you discontinue acting like a gentleman after receiving it.

If you are not forthcoming about having a TER account when going through my screening process, you will never get a whitelist from me.

  

Would you go to a swingers club with me?

Yes, however I do not engage in the actual swingers part.

If you are gifting me for a certain time for us to go to the club, I will be only with you sexually for the night.

Oddly enough, I have no interest in the swingers life style.

I do enjoy going to a sex club with a date so he can check it out but once we are there do not expect me to participate other than be friendly.

NOW if a really hot chick comes up to us, I might break that rule!!!

I had a client ask me recently why I would even go if I do not like it then.

The answer is I understand how hard it is for men to feel comfortable to ask their wives or girlfriends to go but they are curious!

So if I can help a client check it out - and then he can proceed - it is great.

Honestly only ONE!!!! guy said he wanted to go back and be balls to the walls in.

It is very overwhelming but can be great if that is what you like.

I do not judge. xo

  

How do I know I can trust you if I prepay you?

Honestly you do not...

There are some shady women in this business- most are going to be the ones with no social media, no websites, no reviews- do not show their face-- etc

I am as open about who I am as I possibly can be - safely... 

I love what I do and am so very blessed with good fortune because I have never ripped anybody off.

There ARE ladies who do stupid things to vunerable people, I am simply not one of them.

I did not get on the top 5 list on TheEroticReview.com for Orlando by ever doing something stupid, disrespectful, or cheating a client out of his money or not providing the expected GFE Escort encounter.

In the event I have an emergency, I will return your money the way you paid or reschedule and give you extra time. Thankfully I have never had to cancel but if I do, I will make sure to make things right.

I have kept somebodies money after they cancelled on me twice... most ladies will keep it even after once - but if I can rebook the time, I will credit you, however if I cannot, I will have to keep it.

I have spoken with a few many men who have had a bad expierence with some sort of prepay and the first thing they say is the money I was out really sucked but it was the let down of what I was looking forward to that was the most upsetting.

Personally, I could never imagine being able to live with myself if I was to rip somebody off .

I can do a lot of questionable things lol, stealing in any format is just not one of them.

You do not have to use my prepay method if you are still concerned.

However the prepay for the screening deposit is non-negotiable.

I will NEVER break my rules for ANYBODY so always do what is best for you.

 

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